The Online Dating pool has been described as a cesspool of madness. I won't be that dramatic but I will certainly say that it tends to bring out the creepies. I have seen it all from the bareback photos to the bare bottom photos (Dial it back a bit guys, save something for the date!) What's really funny is that all of a sudden, men who would not have the balls to approach a beautiful woman on the street hide behind their computer or smartphone and send (sometimes lude) introductory messages to women. I'm not saying that online dating is a total failure but it is a game of numbers and patience as you will probably end up going on quite a few first dates before meeting your prince charming.
Tips
- Trust your instincts. If a guy's profile seems to be true, it usually is. Ask probing questions to see if his answers are consistent.
- If a guy only has 1 image which looks like a professional headshot it's possible that's not really his pic. Ask him to post additional photos so that you can see him clearly.
- Speak on the telephone before going out to meet a guy. If he is unwilling to exchange numbers this is a big red flag.
- ALWAYS and I repeat ALWAYS meet in a public place. Never go to someone's home as a first date. Remember, you don't know anything about this person other than what they type online.
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