Whether your idea of a successful date is Sex on the first date or moving towards a long-term relationship these tips will help any man make a woman swoon just like in old movies.
Ladies: I'm letting the cat out of the bag but don't worry...your keen instincts will help you see through any man who uses these tips just to get you into bed. Plus, you can use some of these tips yourself to "score" with men!
Men: these are words of wisdom so use wisely and please don't go overboard or disrespect a woman in any way. No matter what, NO still means NO!
Tips
- Actually listen and show an interest in what your date is saying. It would help if she is saying something interesting but if she isn't smile and nod every few seconds and skip to Tip number 10 if all else fails.
- Ask deep questions about her family or her fears. (I think I just heard every man on the planet groan as they read that). Women feel special knowing that a man wants to know more about her life. If you want to get into her pants get into her head!
- Attitude. Noone likes a boring goody-two-shoes but noone likes a jerk either. Confidence is sexy and interesting to a woman and it makes them feel like you are a strong conquerer and she is a fair maiden. (Those 2 fairy tales don't go together but you get the point!)
- Be a gentleman. Chivalry is not dead and it's especially useful when you're trying to impress. Opening doors and walking on the street side of the sidewalk will always win you bonus points.
- ALWAYS pay on the first date. This should probably be number 1 on the list. Nothing kills a woman's sex drive more than a man asking her to pay or go "Dutch" on the first date. This is different from chivalry, this is just plain smart! If you can't afford a 3-course meal then suggest a coffee date at Starbucks or a dessert date. Women love chocolate so this is a win-win situation for both of you.
- Call or message after that first date (even if you don't feel like it). Gone are the days when you had to wait 2 days to make that follow up call. Pick up the phone that very night or the next day to let your date know you had a good time and/or would like to see her again. It would really suck if you waited a week and someone else swooped in to claim your prize.
- Be a good kisser. No woman in her right mind will sleep with you if you can't even kiss. Practice makes perfect? (I have no other suggestion here).
- Flirt, flirt, flirt. Flirting is the very first stage of dating. From a coy look, a sly smile or a light touch on her hand or in the small of her back as she walks be assured that your conquest knows that you are interested in (having sex with) her. You see what I did there :)
- Take pride in your personal appearance. Just as men love to see women dressed in tight dresses and short skirts, women find a man in a nice suit or fitted jeans to be very sexy!
- Compliment her and make her feel beautiful. Make a larger effort than to tell her how "sweet" or "juicy" her butt looks in her yoga pants. Comment on her eyes or her hair. I would also stay away from something weird like "your teeth are very straight".
- Be nice to her friends. If a woman sees you getting along with her girlfriends this increases your probability of getting laid by 10.4089%. (This number hasn't been proven but it has to be pretty close!)
- Make her dinner. We do NOT recommend anyone visit the home of a potential suitor if the don't know them well but if you know this person well enough women absolutely love when a man makes the effort of making dinner for 2. The more romantic, the better!
- Please, please don't send penis pics (unless requested), especially if she will have to zoom in to appreciate it. Penis pics went out of style with high tops and cassette tapes and there is no point letting a woman know you are a jerk BEFORE you get her into bed.
- This one may be the most controversial tip yet...advise her NOT to be interested. This may be considered reverse psychology but some women are drawn to what they cannot have. So why not use it to our advantage?
- Ask her to go home with you. My personal theory is that some women will be disgusted and never speak to me ever again but some will say "OK". I always loved Math...2% is better than 0% for not trying!
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