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February 27 2015

Spare the rod, spoil the child!

By: ROZZ Editorial
 
 
Almost every Caribbean child has been spanked by a parent when they "stepped out of line". In earlier years, it was also acceptable for an older person in the neighbourhood to administer punishment if they saw a child they knew misbehaving in any way. This was examplified in the book called Harriet's Daughter, where Margaret's dad threatened to send her to Barbados where she would receive "good West Indian discipline".
 
How far is too far?

On February 20 2015, staff at West Hernando Middle School called police when Alexander's daughter arrived at school wearing the white T-shirt below (front view).

Shirt Melany Alexander forced her daughter to wear to school
The T-shirt Melany Alexander reportedly forced her daughter to wear to school
(Photo: Hernando County Sheriff's Office)

Melany Joyce Alexander, 30, was subsequently arrested and charged with child abuse after a Brooksville, Florida deputy identified "numerous bruises and belt marks to the child's arms and shoulders down to her wrists" consistent with being struck by what the child described as a white leather belt with holes and metal divots. The divots left "clear impressions in several places, including both arms, neck, chest, back and legs". Alexander was interviewed at her home by the deputy and a Department of Children and Families staffer and "was very uncooperative, but later stated she did, in fact, strike the child numerous times with a white leather belt because she was failing school."

 

Adrian Peterson

Should Peterson himself be reprimanded for disciplining his own child however he sees fit?

The NFL league had initially suspended Peterson under its personal conduct policy but on February 26 2015 U.S. District Judge David Doty ruled in Peterson's favor on his appeal of the suspension after Peterson pleaded no contest to reckless assault on his son.

Should parents be held accountable?

In 1869, a father doused his blind son in kerosene then locked him in a frigid cellar for several days in the dead of winter. He was fined $300 and received no jail time. The court decided that parents are given large discretion in parenting, but this discretion is limited to treatment that is reasonable and humane, and the law punishes parents who en gage in wanton and needless cruelty. But who decides what is "wanton and needless"? How do we draw the line?

Child Protective services in the United States originally served to protect children from neglect, providing them with shelter and nutrition when their own parents could not. But neglect and abuse often went hand-in-hand, and by the 20th century, child protective services were also tasked with rescuing children from potentially life-threatening abuse. In 1962, an article called "The Battered-Child Syndrome," shocked millions of Americans by implying that their routine disciplinary practices might actually be deeply harming their children. Child abuse, the authors noted, occurs not just in slums but also "among people with good education and stable financial and social background."

In recent years, scientists have found that even basic spanking has alarmingly negative consequences for childhood development. Spanking can increase a child's risk of aggression and can cause anti-social behaviour and mental scars that last a lifetime.

This is heavily disputed because so many MORE kids have been spanked and have grown up to be upstanding members of society who know right from wrong and that actions have consequences. Noone can dispute the fact that crime has increased in every single society in our nation and with so many parents opting for less "abusive" forms of discipline such as "time-outs" it begs the question, "Does spanking kids as a form of discipline teach them core values and is it worth the mental and physical anguish that results?"


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